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Dear Abby: Narcissist dad getting worse with age

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

Dear Abby: My narcissistic father feels entitled to do whatever he pleases. He has always insisted that since he makes the money, far more than my mother’s income, he should be waited on and cleaned up after. If he stays in my home, he leaves messes everywhere. He’s 70, but he acts like a 4-year-old.He loves attention and will do anything to be the center of it, whether it’s wearing a kilt or showing off his intellectual prowess. I have no relationship with him, and I’m OK with that. Mom complains constantly about him, and then defends him. It’s emotionally exhausting.My husband, our kids and I are appalled at his lack of self-awareness, empathy or caring. He makes going on vacation a nightmare. He feels that if he does all the driving, then he’s done his part and refuses to help with anything else. He is difficult and manipulative.He’s getting worse as he gets older, and I no longer want to subject my family to this. My mother doesn’t...

Coronado High School employee placed on paid administrative leave

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

CORONADO, Calif. -- A Coronado High School employee was placed on paid administrative leave pending an investigation, according to education officials.The Coronado Unified School District (CUSD) confirmed in a statement that "the investigation does not involve any CUSD student/s." "Administrative leave is a normal procedural step to protect both the integrity of an investigation and due process," CUSD's statement read. "We are working in cooperation with the Coronado Police Department to ensure that a thorough and timely investigation is completed." Carlsbad High assistant principal shares opposition to district ‘diversity, equity, inclusion’ efforts The school acknowledged the announcement "raises more questions than we are able to answer at this time." "Please be assured that the wellbeing of our students is our priority and the dedicated professionals at our schools remain focused on ensuring student success as we finish the school year," CUSD said.School officials did not iden...

New Build-A-Bear workshop opens in San Diego

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- An updated Build-A-Bear Workshop has relocated within the Fashion Valley Mall.The new store can be found on the upper level between Macy's and JCPenney, the local mall said on its website.“We’re so excited to be opening a newly updated store at Fashion Valley Mall and joining this popular trendy shopping destination,” said Chris Hurt, Chief Operations and Experience Officer. “For the past 25 years, the Build-A-Bear experience has had the power to add a little more heart to life in a unique way, and we are so excited to see it continue to come to life at Fashion Valley.” Here’s the scoop: Salt & Straw opening new store in San Diego The Fashion Valley Build-A-Bear location provides kids, teens and adults with a variety of furry friends, accessories and products, along with the iconic heart ceremony that allows guests to choose a satin heart, make a special wish and place the heart inside their new stuffed animal.The Build-A-Bear Make-Your-Own experience involves cus...

20 richest countries account for over half of 50 million people in ‘modern slavery,’ report says

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

UNITED NATIONS (AP) — The world’s 20 richest countries are fueling forced labor and account for over half the estimated 50 million people living in “modern slavery,” according to a report released Wednesday.The report by the Walk Free foundation, a rights group that focuses on modern slavery, said six members of the Group of 20 nations have the largest number of people in modern slavery – either in forced labor or forced marriage. India tops the list with 11 million followed by China with 5.8 million, Russia with 1.9 million, Indonesia with 1.8 million, Turkey with 1.3 million and the United States with 1.1 million.“Most of the countries with lowest prevalence of modern slavery — Switzerland, Norway, Germany, Netherlands, Sweden, Denmark, Belgium, Ireland, Japan, and Finland — are also members of the G20,” the report said. “Yet, even in these countries, thousands of people continue to be forced to work or marry, despite their high levels of economic development, gender equality, soc...

Friends to foes: How Trump and DeSantis’ relationship has deteriorated over the years

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

MIAMI (AP) — It wasn’t always this way.Before Donald Trump and Ron DeSantis were leading rivals for the 2024 Republican presidential nomination, they were allies.Trump gave DeSantis’ gubernatorial bid an early boost by tweeting his support even before DeSantis formally entered the race. In his 2018 victory speech, DeSantis made sure to thank the president, saying, “I think we’ll have a great partnership.”Here’s how DeSantis and Trump’s relationship has evolved — and broken down — as the two face off to take on Democrat Joe Biden:‘UNITE BEHIND THE REPUBLICAN TICKET’During the 2016 presidential campaign, then-congressman DeSantis said he wouldn’t make an endorsement in the crowded field but would support the eventual nominee.When that ended up being Trump, DeSantis issued a statement calling on fellow Republicans to back the celebrity businessman.“It is now clear that Donald Trump will accumulate the delegates necessary to be nominated by the Republican P...

Trump and DeSantis’ rivalry intensifies as Florida governor formally enters 2024 presidential race

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

NEW YORK (AP) — Ron DeSantis ’ entry into the 2024 White House race against former President Donald Trump sets up a clash of the Republican Party’s two leading figures as the Florida governor attempts to topple a man who has dominated the GOP for the last seven years.Trump, who has established himself as the clear front-runner for the Republican nomination, has spent the months since he launched his own campaign working to hobble the once-ascendant DeSantis, whom he and his team have long viewed as his most serious challenger. DeSantis so far has tried to remain above the fray, ignoring Trump’s escalating attacks on everything from his record to his personality.“The campaign is about to get a lot more intense. He can’t just lay low in Tallahassee signing bills,” said GOP strategist Alex Conant of DeSantis’ strategy. “Now he has to hit the campaign trail, take media questions and punch back at his opponents.”But DeSantis, during a series of events Wednesday ni...

Air Force fighter pilot tapped by Biden to be next Joint Chiefs chairman has history of firsts

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

WASHINGTON (AP) — The Air Force fighter pilot about to be nominated as the next chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff got his callsign by ejecting from a burning F-16 fighter jet high above the Florida Everglades and falling into the watery sludge below. It was January 1991, and then-Capt. CQ Brown Jr. had just enough time in his parachute above alligator-full wetlands for a thought to pop into his head. “Hope there’s nothing down there,” Brown said in an interview at the Aspen Security Forum last year. He landed in the muck, which coated his body and got “in his boots and everything.” Which is how the nominee to be the country’s next top military officer got his callsign: “Swamp Thing.”Brown, now a four-star general and the Air Force chief, will be nominated by President Joe Biden on Thursday. If confirmed, Brown would replace Army Gen. Mark Milley, whose term ends in October. Biden is scheduled to unveil Brown as his pick during a Rose Garden event on Thursday af...

Flying drones and chasing data, Indigenous women in Guyana join fight against climate change

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

RUBY VILLAGE, Guyana (AP) — A small group of Indigenous women in northern Guyana are the latest weapon in the fight against climate change in this South American country where 90% of the population lives below sea level.Armed with drones, the women are scanning mangrove forests for illegal cutting and expect to soon start collecting soil samples and mangrove litter to measure the carbon held in remote coastal ecosystems that have long been out of reach for scientists. Such data could nudge the government to create policies and programs to protect critical areas.“We are merging traditional knowledge and scientific research to get all this information that we need but never had before and couldn’t afford to get,” said Annette Arjoon-Martins, head of Guyana’s Marine Conservation Society.The women’s work is considered key for Guyana, a small nation about the size of Britain that has a 285-mile-long (459 kilometers) coastline whose coastal plains lie an average of 6 feet (2 meters) below...

Oath Keepers founder Stewart Rhodes faces sentencing for seditious conspiracy in Jan. 6 attack

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

WASHINGTON (AP) — Oath Keepers founder Stewart Rhodes will be sentenced Thursday after a landmark verdict convicting him of spearheading a weekslong plot to keep former President Donald Trump in power, culminating in far-right extremists attacking the U.S. Capitol on Jan. 6, 2021. Prosecutors are seeking 25 years behind bars for Rhodes, who will be sentenced in the federal court in Washington that sits less than a mile from the Capitol. He will be the first Jan. 6 defendant convicted of seditious conspiracy to receive his punishment, which will set the standard for a slew of extremists group members’ sentencings to come. Prosecutors say Rhodes remains a threat to American democracy more than two years after he led a plot to forcibly block the transfer of power from Trump to President Joe Biden after Trump lost the 2020 election. During a court hearing on Wednesday, police officers and congressional staffers at the Capitol on Jan. 6 recounted the physical and emotional trauma t...

Timeline: How Georgia and South Carolina nuclear reactors ran so far off course

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 13:54:14 GMT

WAYNESBORO, Ga. (AP) — The first of two nuclear reactors in Georgia is generating electricity and could be days away from achieving full-power operation. But the new units at Georgia Power Co.’s Plant Vogtle are $17 billion over budget and running seven years late. Customers of multiple Georgia utilities are already paying billions, although state regulators haven’t yet decided how much Georgia Power ratepayers will owe.Meanwhile, two of the same model reactors that were planned for different owners in South Carolina were abandoned partway through construction. There, federal prosecutors have pursued criminal charges against utility and construction executives, saying they illegally concealed delays and cost overruns. The projects were supposed to mark a rebirth for the U.S. nuclear industry, but construction proved difficult despite consistent federal support.Here’s a timeline of the two nuclear projects:1970: Georgia Power Co., a unit of Atlanta-based Southern Co...